Thu, 19 October 2017
Have you ever had something good happen in your life? A promotion? A birthday party? A big win? Then you looked at porn and everything came crashing down. Maybe you got to a BIG recovery milestone like 30-days porn free. Only to look at porn again on day 31. Or you maybe relapsed, got current with your wife and accountability group. Reset. Felt stable. Then inexplicably relapsed the very next day. You may have an "Upper Limit Problem." In this episode, you learn: - What an Upper Limit Problem is You'll also learn 2 awesome tips from the guys in REV Group Coaching. Plus I weigh in on Harvey Weinstein and the #MeToo hashtag phenomenon. Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 131 – Things were going so well and then you looked at porn again!?! appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 10 October 2017
In this episode, I answer a common question from new listeners: "What is Self Care?" In this episode you'll learn: - What self care is Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 130 – Back 2 Basics: What Is Self Care? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 3 October 2017
Hugh Hefner was a callous, con man. He created the myth of “the playboy.” A rich man, who lived in his pajamas, worshipped by beautiful women. He sold his myth like Phillip Morris sold the Marlboro Man. It was sex without consequences. Where women give without taking and never grow old. And we bought into it one masturbation session at a time. In this episode, I discuss his legacy and the "obviously wicked and destructive things" he left behind. Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 129 – The 7 Lies of Hugh Hefner appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 26 September 2017
In the second of 2 episodes, I share my journey discovering the The Porn Free Plan That Never Fails. - I share the final 3 steps you need to create your own plan Part 1 is found in episode 127. Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 128 – The Porn Free Plan That Never Fails Pt. 2 appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Fri, 22 September 2017
On a recent writer's retreat I challenged myself to: Capture the steps to being porn free (the actual steps) It's 5 steps in all. Part 2 is found in episode 128 and it contains the last 3 steps. Enjoy. Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 127 – The Porn Free Plan That Never Fails Pt. 1 appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 6 September 2017
Back from a summer vacation with my family this week. I discuss traveling to Florida on I-75, Disney World, and getting sick. Also some timely fantasy football talk. Free Webinar: The Porn Free Plan That Never Fails w/ Matt Dobschuetz Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 126 – Road Trip: Porn on I-75 appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Fri, 18 August 2017
Sam Dobschuetz, Coach and Stay-At-Home Dad, visits the Pornfree Radio studio aka my basement. Sam coaches youth group pastors and has a passion for helping guys get out of isolation, find community, and healthy self care. We talk about growing up, Sam's experience with porn, and what he has seen as a youth group pastor, and now a coach of youth group leaders. Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 125 – Know You’re Not Alone w/ Sam Dobschuetz appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 8 August 2017
In this episode, I'll show you how to porn-proof your home today. I share: - the actual tools I use Also I share Gary Wilson's (from yourbrainonporn.com) response to episode 123. Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 124 – How To Porn-Proof Your Home appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 31 July 2017
My inbox is full (again!) Time to answer your burning questions. - Why do you say that porn addiction recovery has little to do with brain science? Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 123 – Start Before You’re Ready appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Thu, 20 July 2017
Several years ago I participated in a men's weekend. It was a deep-dive counseling intensive. I'll admit it, I did beat on a drum at one point during the three days. But it was an incredible experience. On Friday night, we had to answer 3 questions before the other men. I present the 3 questions for you now. Use these, this week, to lock in and focus your recovery. Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 122 – 3 Questions To Laser Focus Your Recovery This Week appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Sun, 9 July 2017
In this episode, we discuss "The Hero's Journey" with Ben Fraser, film maker and creator of the Brick House Web Series about quitting porn. Ben shares how he used the archetype of "The Hero" to reframe his experience of recovery. Ben joined us first in PFR 24. He is a frequent contributor to Pornfree Radio and is now the Coaching Coordinator for Sprint Coaching and REV Group Coaching. Show Notes Contibute to Pornfree Radio Coaching With Matt Dobschuetz Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 121 The Hero’s Journey with Ben Fraser appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 19 June 2017
Summer is here and it's a great time to talk about "School's Out Syndrome." It's that feeling we have on the last day of school. A perverse freedom that comes in transition when we don't feel like we have any authority or rules. In this episode, you'll learn: - What "School's Out Syndrome" is REV Group Coaching Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 120 – School’s Out Syndrome appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 5 June 2017
If you have been at recovery for a while you have probably had a "roller coaster week." It's where you have some good recovery activities and momentum, then a relapse. How do we make sense of these ups and downs? REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 119 – Riding the Recovery Roller Coaster appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 30 May 2017
Coach and founder of Dirty Girl Ministries, Crystal Renaud, joins Pornfree Radio. In this episode, we discuss the importance of moving from away from negative labels (i.e. addict) in recovery. Crystal also shares her own story out of porn addiction and her recovery experience as a woman of faith. REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 118 – Redefining Identity with Crystal Renaud appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 23 May 2017
How you're responding after a slip or a relapse can determine the long-term health of your recovery. In this episode, I share 3 common mistakes I routinely made after relapses and what you can do to avoid them. Get Access: Free Webinar - Monday May 29th REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 117 – 3 Common Mistakes Guys Make After A Relapse appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 16 May 2017
We've all been there. Whether it's at the mall, the grocery store, or even at church, we have these nagging lustful thoughts that come out of nowhere. Because of our history of porn use, we seem wired to sexualize people in our path. In this episode, Matt is joined by Scott from the Thursday night REV Group. We discuss real strategies you can use to deal with this pattern and find freedom. REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 116 – How To Deal With Pornographic Thoughts in Public appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 8 May 2017
In this episode, I go off the dome, and respond to critical feedback from two listeners. Warning: I get fired up. The post 115 – Warning: Matt Gets Fired Up appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Thu, 4 May 2017
I get a lot of questions these days about Smart Phones and Smart TVs. Networked internet devices are the norm now. But they can also be a big threat to our sobriety. In this episode, I share a powerful metaphor you can use when making decisions about smart devices and how they fit with your recovery goals. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 114 – Smart Phones, Smart TVs, and Whatever Comes Next appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 25 April 2017
On this week's episode, I share an a-ha moment from a PFR listener. Jon shares how he's gotten to 81 days porn and masturbation free by making daily investment building his character. He writes, "I am inhabiting a place of becoming the type of man that does not look at porn. Instead of; practicing behaviors that keep me from looking at porn." 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 113 – Becoming the type of man that does not look at porn appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 5 April 2017
Are you avoiding failure in your life? Are you trying to escape negative thoughts, feelings, or emotions? This pattern of avoidance could be fueling your porn addiction and at the same time thwarting your recovery. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 112 – Avoiding Failure appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 28 March 2017
Hope Ray is back! In this episode, we discuss the top 3 lies that partners believe when their husbands or boyfriend's struggle with porn. Hope first joined us in episodes 70 and 74 of Pornfree Radio. She specializes in working with partners and couples who are healing from the effects of porn and sex addiction. Free Download from Hope REV Group Coaching Application 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 111 – The Top 3 Lies Partners Believe with Hope Ray appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 20 March 2017
In this episode, I unpack the good and bad news about hitting rock bottom. The bad news is few people will be able to porn free unless they have hit rock bottom. I also answer two burning questions from listeners. REV Group Coaching Application 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 110 – Do I have to hit rock bottom to recover? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 13 March 2017
My inbox is full (again!) Time to answer your burning questions: - Are there any porn free sexual acts? ... and more! REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 109 – What we live for is more important than what we give up appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 8 March 2017
In this episode, we open the Pornfree mail bag, read your letters and answer questions like: - Any suggestions for parents of someone who doesn't seem to want to fight to be porn free? Register Now for REV Group Coaching Sign up for Build a 7-Day Porn Free Plan Webinar (March 13) 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 108 – 110 Days Porn Free While Studying For The Bar Exam appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 1 March 2017
In this episode, you'll learn how to create a hyper focused 7-day porn free recovery plan. This continues our "Back 2 Basics" series targeted at new listeners. "To go porn free for a month, you have to go porn free for a week." 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 107 – Back 2 Basics: The 7-Day Porn Free Plan appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 20 February 2017
Continuing our Back 2 Basics series, we review the tool of F.A.S.T.T. check-ins. This structured check-in process will anchor your recovery each week and improve your success. This check-in format comes from Dr. Milton Magness. Its original use was for sex addicts and their partners after disclosure. However F.A.S.T.T. Check-ins provide a great framework for any kind of ongoing accountability. The components of a F.A.S.T.T. Check-in include: - Feelings 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 106 – Back 2 Basics: F.A.S.T.T. Check-Ins appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 13 February 2017
How can we measure the health of our recovery daily? In this episode, I share a new tool for daily recovery tracking that was inspired by the National Hockey League (NHL). Download Daily Recovery Tracking Calendar here: 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 105 – Back 2 Basics: Daily Tracking appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Thu, 9 February 2017
In this uncut, unedited episode of Pornfree Radio, I share 5 things that help me deal with depression. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 104 – How To Deal With Depression appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 25 January 2017
Do you want to jumpstart your recovery this week? Take massive action. Matt is joined by Steve, a Pornfree Radio listener, who took 10 actions last week and shares each of them here. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 103 – How To Take Massive Action appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 16 January 2017
On my 6th anniversary of being porn free, I answer 2 recent questions; "How do you sustain long-term sobriety?" and "What does the struggle look like for you now?" 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 102 – How Do You Sustain Long-Term Sobriety? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 10 January 2017
In 1939, the most important recovery book of all time was written. It has sold more than 30 million copies! However you won't find it when searching for "porn addiction" on Amazon. And chances are you have never read it. But it's a powerful recovery document and should be part of every guy's toolbox. In this episode, you'll learn: - About the "Big Book" 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 101 – The Most Important Recovery Book You’ve Never Read appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 2 January 2017
Celebrating 100 episodes of Pornfree Radio by putting the focus on you the listener. On this episode... Ben, a listener from the Pacific Northwest, joins Pornfree Radio and shares his story. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 100 – Nice to meet you, I’m addicted to porn appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 26 December 2016
My inbox is full (again!) Time to answer your burning questions: - How do I start to feel again? ... and more! REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 099 – How do I start to feel again? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 19 December 2016
In this episode, we open the Pornfree mail bag, read your letters and answer questions like: - Do you have any tips for finding a group? REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 098 – Do you have any tips for finding a group? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Sun, 11 December 2016
Pornography is a habit that is practiced in isolation and in secret. Isn't it just common sense that to break that habit you need others? This is part 3 of our 3-part series for going porn free in 2017. You'll learn: - Why you need a tribe to recover REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 097 – Go Porn Free in 2017 Pt. 3: Your Tribe appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 5 December 2016
"Winners anticipate, losers react." Listeners who have had success listening to Pornfree Radio have one thing in common. They have a plan. A custom recovery plan is essential to getting free from porn addiction. This is part 2 of our 3-part series for going porn free in 2017. You'll learn: - Why motivation is an exhaustible resource REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 096 – Go Porn Free in 2017 Pt. 2: Your Plan appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 29 November 2016
You need to know why you are eliminating porn from your life. The more clear you are, the better. It can't just be for your wife, your faith, your family, your job, etc. You have all those things now and you're still stuck. This is the first of 3 episodes on going porn free in 2017. You'll learn: - Why uncovering your true desire is essential to get free REV Group Coaching 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Contribute to Pornfree Radio Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 095 – Go Porn Free in 2017 Pt. 1: Your Why appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 21 November 2016
In this episode, we talk about... Goal Setting. For years goal setting was something I resisted. But in recovery it's become a growing strength. Ben Fraser from the Brick House Web Series sits in. You'll learn: - Why setting goals matter and why it's essential to your recovery. Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 094 – My Intentions Are Good, But My Follow Through Sucks appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 16 November 2016
How does a morning routine help keep you porn free? That and more are the focus of this episode. Ben Fraser from the Brick House web series sits in. Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 093 – Back 2 Basics: Morning Routine appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 15 November 2016
A topic that keeps coming up is edging. Edging are the little behaviors that mimic our old ways of acting out. Hashtags, images searches, channel surfing, second looks, all fall into this category. They seem innocent compared to our old addiction. But they can spell trouble. Ben Fraser from the Brick House Web Series sits in and shares his thoughts. Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 092 – Back 2 Basics: Edging appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 2 November 2016
Matt shares a tool he has been using recently in 1-on-1 coaching to help clients identify the primary feelings in their life. Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 091 – The Feeling Wheel appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 24 October 2016
"Matt, I'm not perfect. But you know what I am good at? Not relapsing." One of my friends, with many years of sobriety, once told me this. The secret is what you do when you start getting shaky. Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 090 – I’m Not Perfect…But I’m Good At Not Relapsing appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 19 October 2016
Alex Lerza from rTribe visits Pornfree Radio and shares why connection is the opposite of addiction. Alex by training is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. His work as a therapist has come out of his own recovery. His journey led him to create an app in 2015, with fellow therapist, Josh Kalsbeek, to help people recover for porn addiction. rTribe is a social recovery app for porn and sex addiction. It connects thousands of people each day who are working on recovery from porn. Download the app or visit rTribe.org for more information. Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 089 – Social Recovery with Alex Lerza from rTribe appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 5 October 2016
When looking for help with porn addiction, books seem like a safe way to learn. Especially when ordered online. But what do the search results from Amazon.com tell us about our porn addiction? I saw some common themes in the books represented. I break down 3 types of the porn addiction books and ask the question: Do they help us recover or are they an excuse for not taking action? Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 088 – What I Found When I Searched for “Porn Addiction” on Amazon.com appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Thu, 29 September 2016
Whether you're new to Pornfree Radio or have been listening from the beginning, there's a common journey we share. We all start divided with an external life we show people and a hidden life where our addiction lives. Our ultimate goal is to be whole. To have the inside and outside match. But how do we get there? Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 087 – A Man Divided Cannot Stand appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 13 September 2016
What's missing in recovery? YOU. Are you showing up? Are you supporting others? Do you know the value of your presence? In this episode, we discuss why everyone should be in a group. Apply to REV Group Coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 086 Missing In Action appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Sun, 4 September 2016
A year into my recovery, I attended the worst men's group ever. Nobody was having much success and I felt worse going home then when I got there. In this episode, I share what was missing and how you can revive a struggling group. Apply to REV Group Coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 085 The Worst Men’s Group Ever appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 31 August 2016
In episode 75, I shared 5 lies that keep us coming back to porn. This was one of our most downloaded podcasts of the summer. On a recent Reddit thread, I posted the original 5 lies and users contributed more lies in the comments. In this episode, I share the lies here and 5 powerful truths that help overcome them. Apply to REV Group Coaching Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 084 More Lies That Keep Us Coming Back To Porn appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 24 August 2016
Providing great accountability is more than just encouraging someone when they relapse. In this episode, we talk about 3 tools you can use to make your accountability stronger. These tools can be difference between a guy staying stuck and getting to the next level in their recovery. Get Access to Relapse Video Series Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 083 Ask More Questions appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 16 August 2016
Is your accountability partner a CHAMP? In this episode, we answer your questions about accountability and accountability partners. You'll also learn the 5 characteristics of great accountability partners. Get Access to Relapse Video Series Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 082 The 5 Characteristics of Great Accountability Partners appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 8 August 2016
Fresh off of Podcast Movement 2016, Matt welcomes Angus Nelson from the "Up In Your Business" podcast. On this episode, Angus opens up about his history with porn and gets vulnerable. Get Access to Relapse Video Series Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 081 Up In Your Business w/ Angus Nelson appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 1 August 2016
Matt shares two recent stories from coaching clients and the 1 consistent habit you need to stay porn free. Get Access to Relapse Video Series Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 080 The 1 Habit You Need To Stay Porn Free appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 25 July 2016
There are three choices you have when dealing with porn. In this episode, Matt shares an embarrassing story and how it applies to your recovery. Get Access to Relapse Video Series Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 079 The 3 Choices You Have When Dealing With Porn appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 11 July 2016
In episode 4 of Pornfree Radio, we talked about the biggest mistake people make when quitting porn. This episode is one of our most popular and has been downloaded over 5000 times. In this follow up, I revisit the topic with some further thoughts with how guys get stuck. Get Access to Relapse Video Series Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 078 The Biggest Mistake People Make When Quitting Porn Pt. 2 appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 27 June 2016
In each Pornfree Radio podcast, a sale is made. Either you buy what I'm selling about being porn free or you sell me an excuse why you can't. In this episode, we talk about the seven deadly excuses that come up when trying to quit porn. DISCLAIMER: These excuses are not aimed at anyone specific. If they sound familiar it's because I hear them a lot. Get Access to Relapse Video Series Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 077 Seven Deadly Excuses appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 20 June 2016
I've talked to over sixty guys 1-on-1 this past year about their struggle with porn. When I asked what it has cost them, there is a common answer that comes up over and over again. But is it the whole story? In this episode, we look at what they said and dig deeper. In this episode: - The #1 thing we say porn costs us Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 076 The #1 Thing Porn Costs Us appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 13 June 2016
There are 5 lies I hear over and over again from guys trying to quit porn. These are the mistaken beliefs that go through right before we act out. Contibute to Pornfree Radio 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 075 The 5 Lies That Keep Us Coming Back To Porn appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 6 June 2016
In episode 70, Hope Ray joined us from HopeRayTherapy.com to discuss the Partners' experience. Hope returns to answer questions from partners, wives, and girlfriends. In this episode, we answer: - How do I begin a conversation with my significant other about his porn use? 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 074 Hope Ray Returns: Partners’ Q&A appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 1 June 2016
Summer is here. And with it brings time off, vacations, new schedules, bikinis, and summer clothing. In this episode, Matt shares ten porn free hacks you can use this Summer to stay on the right track. Don’t miss hack #8. It’s a new one that goes against popular advice. Sprint Coaching 3-Month Summer Special Fill […] The post 073 Ten Porn Free Hacks For Summer appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 25 May 2016
Can I be a recovering porn addict and an artist at the same time? What about drawing nudes? Or what about art that is erotic? In the art world, the line between porn and art can be thin. In some cases, one person's "art" is another person's porn! How can one balance being an artist, viewing art, drawing from life and avoid being triggered? Hope Ray (from Episode 70) returns Monday, June 6th to answer your questions about recovery and relationships. Email matt@pornfreeradio.com to ask a question. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 072 Can A Recovering Porn Addict Be An Artist? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Sun, 15 May 2016
The nagging question after any relapse is 'Why?" Why did I look at porn when I was committed not to? Why did I look at porn even though it's harmful to my relationship? Why did I look at porn and put my job at risk? There are two reasons that drive us to porn and they have little to do with brain science or our capacity for lust. Hope Ray (from Episode 70) returns Monday, June 6th to answer your questions about recovery and relationships. Email matt@pornfreeradio.com to ask a question. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 071 Why Men Look at Porn appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 4 May 2016
It's been 2 years of Pornfree Radio and this is a show unlike any other. On this episode we focus on partners. We discuss disclosures, coming clean, check-ins, and the partners' experience. Counselor Hope Ray sits joins Matt for an informative discussion that will help both motivated guys who want to quit looking at porn and the partners who love them. What and when to tell your wife Hope Ray returns Monday, June 6th to answer your questions about recovery and relationships. Email matt@pornfreeradio.com to ask a question. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 070 Hope for Partners, Wives, and Girlfriends with Hope Ray appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 25 April 2016
Opening the mailbag once again this week with a stack of questions from you the listener. In this episode: "Is sex in recovery okay?" 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 069 Sex In Recovery From Porn? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 18 April 2016
On this episode, Matt digs into the PFR mailbag and answers some questions listeners want to know. Questions covered: "Are you still doing the podcast?" "We don't think our way to right action, we act our way to right thinking." 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 068 How Long Does It Take To Quit Porn? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Sat, 9 April 2016
Sometimes we discover that we just plain want to hang on porn. We want to be passive and put the responsibility of moving forward on someone else. But it's time to make a decision. In Episode 66, I asked the question, "Do you really want to fix this?" This episode struck a nerve with the audience. I received more email then I ever have before. Some guys were worried I was quitting podcasting. Several guys thought my sharp comments were directly at them. And many more shared the action they were taking as a result from this show. So I thought I would go deeper into what set me off. It's the passive will and a failure to take responsibility. In this episode, you'll learn: - The quote that almost got me in a fight "Sometimes we discover that we just plain want to hang on to the sinful behavior, and some of us even have to face the fact that we then hope to blame God for not "healing" us. We see right away when we are dealing with a passive will, someone who looks lumpishly to a counselor or minister of God to do what only he himself can do. All such things as these come to the fore, along with the memories of where the heart opened itself to envy, bitterness, lust and so on. Then in full confession of our sins of God, we acknowledge our rank foolishness and our propensities to pride and rebellion, and we make a decision about sin." - Leanne Payne, The Healing Presence 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 067 Killing The Passive Will appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 15 March 2016
This show resets the vision of Pornfree Radio. If you are new listener feel free to listen to some old shows. If you're a long timer, it's time to have an honest conversation: Do you want to fix this? Do you really want to fix this? 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 066 IMPORTANT: Do you want to fix this? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 7 March 2016
This is the final episode in a 3 podcast series about dealing with porn at work. We've identified in episode 63 the risks of using porn at work. In episode 64 we talked about how your leadership is compromised. In part 3, Ben from the Brick House Web Series, joins me to discuss strategies for eliminating porn at work and getting things done. If you don't pay appropriate attention to what has your attention, it will take more of your attention than it deserves. - David Allen, Getting Things Done In this episode, you'll learn: - What GTD is Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 065 Not Safe For Work Pt 3: Getting Things Done appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 1 March 2016
This is part 2 of 3 episodes on porn use and the work place. Ben Fraser from the Brick House Web Series joins me again. This time we discuss the effect of porn use on your leadership at work. In this episode, you'll learn: - How porn steals your focus at work Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 064 Not Safe For Work Pt 2: The Impotent Leader appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 22 February 2016
According to a survey* conducted by the Barna Group in the U.S. in 2014: 63% of adult men have looked at pornography at least one time while at work in the past 3 months; 38% have done so more than once. It's a BIG issue. And there are HUGE risks to viewing porn at work. Ben Fraser from the Brick House Web Series joins me for 1st of 3 podcasts on porn use at work. *2014 ProvenMen.org Pornography Use at Work Survey (conducted by the Barna Group) In this episode, you'll learn: - About your personal risk of using porn at work Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 063 Not Safe For Work Pt 1: Risky Business appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 16 February 2016
Matt is joined by Brick House web series creator, Ben Fraser. Ben first visited Pornfree Radio for episode 24 on Creativity and Recovery. In this episode, Matt and Ben discuss the second season of Brick House (now available on YouTube.) Then they turn their attention to a passionate letter from a listener. Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 062 A Bone To Pick appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 26 January 2016
Saying goodbye to your stash is hard to do. It's been with you a long time. It's like a security blanket. But it is something that has to be done if you want freedom. In this episode, we talk about the strength to delete it all. We also discuss the things to watch out for when you get close to 30 days porn free. You'll learn: - About my second chance offers for 2016 2016 Second Chance Offers Get access to Your Porn Free Playbook or 1-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz at a great rate through February 5, 2016. Save $100 off Your Porn Free Playbook Course OR $300 off a 3-month coaching package. Show Notes Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 061 The Strength To Delete It All appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 13 January 2016
In this episode, recorded on my 5th anniversary of being 100% porn free. I share the 5 biggest things that have helped me stay porn free since January 2011. In this episode you'll learn: - About my last relapse Your Porn Free Playbook 2016 (Course) Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 060 Going 5 Years Porn Free appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Thu, 7 January 2016
Continuing our discussion on relapse from episode 58. In this show we talk about the lies we believe and how to prevent relapse. In this episode you'll learn: - Matt's favorite character from Star Wars: The Force Awakens Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret. But when anything is exposed by the light, it becomes visible, for anything that becomes visible is light. - Ephesians 5:11-14 (ESV) Your Porn Free Playbook 2016 (Course) Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 059 Fail Better Pt 2: Preventing Relapse appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 21 December 2015
I get a ton of email about relapse. Immediately after a relapse guys send me questions trying to figure out what went wrong. Or sometimes they are trying to figure out what series of behaviors constitutes relapse. All that and more as we spend the 1st of 2 episodes on relapse. In this episode you'll learn: - What relapse means Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better. Your Porn Free Playbook 2016 (Course) Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 058 Fail Better Pt 1: Recovering From Relapse appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 14 December 2015
There is a part of you that doesn't want to listen to this podcast. Because to go porn free in 2016 you might have to do some things differently than this year. But you need to press through the resistance and embrace the process. In this episode, we discuss the 5 steps to going porn free in 2016. In this episode you'll learn: - What a sprint plan is Free download: Your Porn Free Playbook 2016 (Course) Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 057 Go Porn Free in 2016 appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 8 December 2015
This time a year, we hear a lot of stories about sending letters to Santa. But on this episode Matt reads a letter he received, this week, from the North Pole. Your Porn Free Playbook 2016 (Course) Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 056 A Letter From The North Pole appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Sun, 29 November 2015
Fresh off the American holiday of Thanksgiving, where over indulgence is common, and Black Friday, America's shopping spectacle, Matt digs into one of the best letters he has ever gotten on PFR. Netflix with boundaries? On-demand without the junk? Your Porn Free Playbook 2016 (Course) Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 055 I Just Completed a Massive Binge… appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 23 November 2015
In this episode, we talk about The 5 Essential Habits of Porn Free People. We hosted a webinar a few weeks back on this subject and over 60 guys jumped on to watch. But many of you couldn't make it. If you have struggled going 100% porn free this past year it may be that you're just missing a 1 or 2 key puzzle pieces. So today I reveal the 5 essential habits of porn free people who go 30, 60, 365+ days without porn. Netflix with boundaries? On-demand without the junk? Your Porn Free Playbook 2016 (Course) Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 054 The 5 Essential Habits of Porn Free People appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 9 November 2015
If everything I do is preventative, setting up filters, rules, boundaries,etc. -- how do I know if I'm recovering? Am I really getting better? What are proactive things can I do speed up my recovery? Register for our free Webinar Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 053 How Do I Know If I’m Getting Better? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 2 November 2015
Smartphones are the #1 threat to being porn free today. They are up to a 100x more powerful than computers we used a few years ago and sit on our nightstand. But smartphones are not the problem, it's our relationship with them. Register for our free Webinar Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 052 What Does Your Smartphone Look Like? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Wed, 28 October 2015
Slips. Close calls. Edging. How do we define those little behaviors that are related to our old porn rituals? Matt tackles the age old recover problem: Did we have a slip or did we relapse? Register for our free Webinar Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 051 Slips Vs. Acting Out appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 12 October 2015
The real scandal behind the Ashley Madison hack didn't make headlines, but it has real implications for guys who want to go porn free. I'll share what we can learn from Ashley Madison and what it has in common with sites like Google,YouTube, and Facebook. Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 050 The Real Scandal Behind Ashley Madison appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 5 October 2015
This summer my mailbox has been full. In this episode, I'll be answering questions from listeners. You can always email at matt@pornfreeradio.com. I am the only one who checks that email box. Please include your first name. If there is anything you need to keep private please give me the heads up. Questions discussed in this episode: - Why did I Binge after 30 days of success? Sprint Coaching Openings Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 049 Why Did I Binge After 30 Days of Success? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 28 September 2015
Have you ever gotten home and realized you were alone with unaccountable time? And your next thought was, "Yippe I can look at porn." Or have you ever had 10 minutes of free time on your smart phone and thought no one will know if I do a quick search? Well you have experienced Home Alone Syndrome. It's that all too common trap we get in when we are alone. It can short circuit weeks of strong sobriety in minutes. In this episode we break down the 3 lies that surround Home Alone Syndrome. We also discuss 3 ways to counteract this dangerous pattern. Now Available: Break Glass In Case of Emergency: 10 Ways to Deal With Temptation in the Moment Download my new guide on temptation. This document has 10 powerful exercises inside for dealing with temptation in the moment. Visit http://recoveredman.com/911 to get your copy. Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 048 Home Alone Syndrome appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 21 September 2015
This is part 2 of 2 episodes with Craig Perra from the Mindful Habit. In this episode, Craig continues to document his profound and emotional experience shooting the reality TV show, Living With the Enemy, where he lived with a porn star for 8 days. The show concludes with a powerful scene where Craig takes Emily back to the scene of his darkest moment. Now Available: Break Glass In Case of Emergency: 10 Ways to Deal With Temptation in the Moment Download my new guide on temptation. This document has 10 powerful exercises inside for dealing with temptation in the moment. Visit http://recoveredman.com/911 to get your copy. Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 047 I Lived With A Porn Star Pt 2: Craig Perra appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 14 September 2015
In early 2015, Craig Perra, life coach from the Mindful Habit, lived with a porn star, Emily Nicholson for 8 days. They were on the Lifetime reality series, Living With the Enemy. This is part 1 of 2 episodes with Craig where we get his take on the show and how it affected him. In this episode we talk about Craig's experience being on set at a porn shoot. Now Available: Break Glass In Case of Emergency: 10 Ways to Deal With Temptation in the Moment Download my new guide on temptation. This document has 10 powerful exercises inside for dealing with temptation in the moment. Visit http://recoveredman.com/911 to get your copy. Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 046 I Lived With A Porn Star Pt 1: Craig Perra appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 7 September 2015
The second of two episodes on temptation is all about the way of the escape. Temptation is common to all men. And we have the ability to make choices in the moment. It might feel automatic now, but you can disrupt the temptation cycle and find the way of escape. Now Available: Break Glass In Case of Emergency: 10 Ways to Deal With Temptation in the Moment Download my new guide on temptation. This document has 10 powerful exercises inside for dealing with temptation in the moment. Visit http://recoveredman.com/911 to get your copy. Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 045 Temptation Pt 2: The Way of Escape appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 1 September 2015
Our first of two episodes on temptation is all about your desire. Before you learn how to deal with temptation, you have to first define what it really means. Then you have to see the temptation cycle and how your desire drives it. Now Available: Break Glass In Case of Emergency: 10 Ways to Deal With Temptation in the Moment Download my new guide on temptation. This document has 10 powerful exercises inside for dealing with temptation in the moment. Visit http://recoveredman.com/911 to get your copy. Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 044 Temptation Pt 1: Your Desire appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Sun, 16 August 2015
The phrase "porn addiction side effects" is searched in Google over 60, 000 times a month. Guys are looking for answers in attempt to self-diagnose things like, Porn-induced Erectile Dysfunction, depression, intrusive thoughts, dopamine headaches, fetishes, and escalating behaviors. In this episode, we look at the porn addiction side effects that are common to all of us who struggle. Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 043 Porn Addiction Side Effects appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 27 July 2015
Our final installment in our three-part series on Getting Started, focuses on your plan. "Fail to plan. Plan to fail.", is a true statement. Without a plan in place you continue to get triggered, go to unsafe places, and relapse. Again and again. At the end of this episode you will have the tools to build a simple plan that you can improve on as time goes on. See episode 040 Getting Started Pt 1: Hitting Rock Bottom and 041 Getting Started Pt 2: Phone A Friend to listen from the beginning. Show Notes Facebook Twitter Google+ FEEDBACK The post 042 Getting Started Pt 3: Your Plan appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 13 July 2015
The second in our three-part series on Getting Started, focuses on asking for help. Whether it's a phone call, a text, or a face to face meeting we need to bring others into our struggle with pornography. Pornography addiction thrives in isolation and the way out is making connection. See episode 040 Getting Started Pt 1: Hitting Rock Bottom to listen from the beginning. http://recoveredman.com/41
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Tue, 7 July 2015
Our first in a three-part series on Getting Started is all about hitting rock bottom and how your darkest moment can be a great gift in your recovery. http://recoveredman.com/40 The post 040 Getting Started Pt 1: Hitting Rock Bottom appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 29 June 2015
You ever wonder why stores place candy by the checkout counter? In this episode, we talk about what we can learn at the grocery store about our porn addiction. I also share three ways you can use reverse engineering to reinforce quitting porn. http://recoveredman.com/39 The post 039 Avoiding The Porn Checkout Line appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 15 June 2015
If we’ve left the country where porn controls our life, how can we still live in our old house there? For many the desire to change is followed by this struggle. We have packed up and moved for good and yet we still want to go back and try and live in our old house. We want to revisit old habits. Matt just completed an actual move so the metaphor is top of mind for our journey out of porn. http://recoveredman.com/38 The post 038 Where Are You Moving? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 1 June 2015
Looking back at my recovery process, I wouldn't change much. The missteps and relapses helped me strengthen my plan. I learned a lot from my mistakes. But I realize now there were something in those early days that I could of done which would of shaved years off of the process. Mind you it's not something easy. But if you can put in place and keep it, you're recovery will immediately go to the next level. http://recoveredman.com/37 The post 037 The Fastest Way To Freedom appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 25 May 2015
Pornfree Radio is for motivated guys who want to quit looking at porn. But how do you find motivation? Are there any bad motivations for quitting porn? Why does it help to get specific about what your primary motivation is? http://recoveredman.com/36 The post 036 Finding Your Motivation appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 18 May 2015
Craig Perra, founder of The Mindful Habit, returns for a powerful conversation about 12 Step groups and the disease model for treating addiction. Together, we discuss some of the pros and cons of 12 step groups and the alternatives. http://recoveredman.com/35 The post 035 Rethinking 12 Step With Craig Perra From The Mindful Habit appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 11 May 2015
Christian guys make up the majority of my audience and Christians have some compelling reasons to want to eliminate porn from their lives. It's in direct conflict with the teachings of Jesus. In Jesus' most famous sermon he said, "You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Jesus equates this act of looking at a women with lustful intent as being the same as breaking the 7th commandment, "You shall not commit adultery." But knowing what’s right and doing something about are two different things. Christian guys bring some strengths to our porn free community and also some blind spots. I cover them both here and have some advice for taking action. http://recoveredman.com/34 The post 034 Hope for the Porn Addicted Christian appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Tue, 5 May 2015
When I started this podcast I wasn't sure who would join this community and go on this ride for me. I had been mostly doing this stuff with in my church and was used to working with Christian guys. But a good number of downloads came from guys who considered themselves non-religious. No mater what word you use, Agnostic, Atheist, Skeptic, Free Thinker, etc. there is hope for you to quit porn. http://recoveredman.com/33 The post 033 Hope for the Porn Addicted Agnostic appeared first on Recovered Man. |
Mon, 27 April 2015
The culture tells us porn addiction is made up. But we know different. There is something about this behavior that we have grown tired of. It is not serving us well. In this episode, Matt goes through a simple self-assessment of porn addiction. He also shares a simple definition of addiction that may change the way you define it. http://recoveredman.com/32 The post 032 Am I A Porn Addict? appeared first on Recovered Man. |
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