Do you care a lot about what people think? Do you struggle with feeling good enough? Do you avoid conflict? When you relapse to you feel a lot of shame?

If so you may be living life in what Steve Chandler calls the "Social Self." In this episode, we define the "Social Self" and contrast it with our goal in recovery, the "Authentic Self."

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/236

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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"I’m committed to being porn free because I’m sick and tired of living off of chicken nuggets and french fries and I want more ski slopes, Hulk rides, and BBQ in my life.”

— The Epic Why Statement from a PFR Listener

Is your recovery boring? Here’s how to start reclaiming your creativity and imagination today.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/235

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching