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Hope Ray returns to Porn Free Radio today and asks Matt the questions partners want to know. 

Questions like: What do you teach men about accountability?  When should guys make out reach calls? What kind of attitude should guys have about being honest and vulnerable? What's the power of men connecting in a group? Will groups always be necessary? Does recovery for men ever getting easier? And more.

https://recoveredman.com/286

Direct download: pfr286.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 11:11am CDT

Drew Boa from Husband Material, is sitting in on Porn Free Radio today. He shares how understanding your sexual fantasies can lead to greater freedom in recovery.

Drew is professional coach and podcaster who helps men outgrow pornography. He the author of Redeemed Sexuality and host of the Husband Material Podcast. Drew lives in Santa Barbara, California with his wife and two kids. 

https://recoveredman.com/285

Direct download: pfr285.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 4:38pm CDT

Hope Ray, is sitting in on Porn Free Radio today and answering questions porn free men ask about their partners.

Questions like: How can I build the skill of ongoing honesty if any confession is interpreted as betrayal? What can I do if my partner is uncomfortable with me being involved or leading a recovery group? And more.

https://recovereredman.com/284

Direct download: pfr284.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 11:20am CDT

We often think Summer is a time for kicking back and taking it easy. But that kind of thinking flows towards our weaknesses.

Building on PFR 282 - Reframing Summer, how can we create some fun growth opportunities this season?

In this podcast: 10 Ideas To Electrify Your Summer designed to challenge and inspire you to action.

https://recoveredman.com/283

Direct download: pfr283.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 4:51pm CDT

Summer often brings with it challenges for guys in recovery. People wearing less clothes, triggering situations like beaches or pools, and changes to our normal routine (summer hours, vacations) can trip us up. But how we view these challenges can change how we experience them.

On this episode, we talk about the essential recovery skill of reframing.

https://recoveredman.com/282

Direct download: pfr282.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 12:34pm CDT

Do you consider yourself a nice guy? Do you care a lot about what people think of you? Do you often put people's needs and wants before your own? Do you ever think if you could just eliminate porn from your life then everything would be okay? So what's so

So what's so wrong about being a nice guy?

Nice guys are inherently dishonest. They show people one version of themselves, the "nice guy" in order to get approval. They hide anything else they find unacceptable. This can include needs, flaws, mistakes, wounds, emotions, and desires. This practice fundamentally undermines the process of recovery. 

On this episode, Jason George from the GRIZ podcast joins this episode of Porn Free Radio. The guys discuss integrity, "nice guy syndrome", and what's needed to live a whole, undivided life. 

https://recoveredman.com/281

Direct download: pfr281.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 10:11am CDT

Aaron, a 38 year-old married man, from South Carolina (by way of Staten Island, NY) joins us on the 1 year anniversary of being porn free.

We talk about Wu-Tang Clan, the New York Jets, and Aaron's inspiring porn free journey.

https://recoveredman.com/280

Direct download: pfr280.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 9:40am CDT

Craig Perra, coach and founder of the The Mindful Habit, joins PFR for his record-setting 6th episode.

Craig shares about his recent trip to Coachella, what's exciting him now in coaching, and he makes a big TV announcement.

https://recoveredman.com/279

Direct download: pfr279.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 4:28pm CDT

The hits keep on coming. It’s another EPIC PFR crossover with the Pure Desire Podcast. Trevor Winsor and Nick Stumbo joined me back in PFR 233 for a great discussion about recovery.

On today’s show we talk about my book, Porn Free: Becoming the Type of Man Who Does Not Look At Porn. We discuss self-rejection, connection in recovery, and the power of groups.

https://recoveredman.com/278

Direct download: pdf278.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 8:28am CDT

It's another EPIC PFR crossover with the Pirate Monk Podcast. Nate Larkin and Aaron Porter joined me in PFR 214 for a great discussion about recovery.

On today's show we talk about what the guys have been up to since 2019. We discuss my new book, music, and even skateboarding. 

https://recoveredman.com/277

Direct download: pfr277.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 10:57am CDT

On today's show it's another EPIC PFR crossover podcast with Unleash the Man Within with Sathiya Sam.

Sathiya is a former pastor, coach, and author of the new book, The Last Relapse.

https://recoveredman.com/276

Direct download: pfr276.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 12:01am CDT

Twice a month, I have a REV Coach Meet-Up with Vern Tompke (ep. 266) and Chris White (ep. 270.) I learn a lot from these guys as we discuss leading our groups and life in recovery. So I asked them to come on PFR and do a live meet-up.

We start by discussing the Johann Hari's quote that that "the opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it's connection" and we go from there.

https://recoveredman.com/275

Direct download: pfr275.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 11:07am CDT

Author and Master Coach, Steve Chandler, shares some of his biggest ideas for tranformation and growth. His own recovery from addiction became a springboard for reinventing himself and his habits. Steve credits much of the creativity in his writing and coaching practice to this process. 

Grab a coffee and listen to my fun and relaxing conversation with Steve. It will inspire you!

https://recoveredman.com/274

Direct download: pfr274.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 4:53pm CDT

On today's show it's another EPIC PFR crossover podcast with The Flip Side with Noah Filipiak. Noah is a pastor and author of Beyond the Battle: A Man's Guide to His Identity in Christ in an Oversexualized World.

https://recoveredman.com/273

Direct download: pfr273.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 12:24pm CDT

In this episode, I share one of the biggest take-aways from my new book, Porn Free: Becoming the Type of Man Who Does Not Look At Porn (visit https://pornfreebook.com.)

"Porn is not the problem for us," I write  "It's the solution."

https://recoveredman.com/272

Direct download: pfr272.mp3
Category:Porn Free Radio -- posted at: 3:42pm CDT

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