Have you ever had something good happen in your life? A promotion? A birthday party? A big win? Then you looked at porn and everything came crashing down.

Maybe you got to a BIG recovery milestone like 30-days porn free. Only to look at porn again on day 31.

Or you maybe relapsed, got current with your wife and accountability group. Reset. Felt stable. Then inexplicably relapsed the very next day.

You may have an "Upper Limit Problem."

In this episode, you learn:

- What an Upper Limit Problem is
- How it affects recovery
- What are the mistaken beliefs it is built on
- How to get past it

You'll also learn 2 awesome tips from the guys in REV Group Coaching. Plus I weigh in on Harvey Weinstein and the #MeToo hashtag phenomenon. 

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/131

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

In this episode, I answer a common question from new listeners: "What is Self Care?"

In this episode you'll learn:

- What self care is
- Why it's important
- How self care is connected to needs
- What Maslow's theory is
- How to apply Maslow's theory to our recovery
- What Self-Actualization means and what characteristics self-actualized people have

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/130

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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Hugh Hefner was a callous, con man. He created the myth of “the playboy.” A rich man, who lived in his pajamas, worshipped by beautiful women. He sold his myth like Phillip Morris sold the Marlboro Man.

It was sex without consequences. Where women give without taking and never grow old. And we bought into it one masturbation session at a time. 

In this episode, I discuss his legacy and the "obviously wicked and destructive things" he left behind.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/129

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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